Sunday, May 31, 2015

Accepting Who You Are Then Deciding You Are Alright The Way you Are.




'A Fringe Dweller is someone who lives life outside their head. Using their brain-pan merely as an observational device and not as a judgement unit.Doing so allows a Fringe Dweller to perceive life in many different ways... Making the emotions of "fear" much less intense and the emotions of "love" much more abundant.Often it is said that Fringe Dwellers are higher spirits waiting for humanity to grow with them into something bigger.'The followers of Jesus & Buddha refer to their leaders as Prophets.The critics of Jesus & Buddha may refer to them as Fringe Dwellers.

 Do you ever feel that you are stuck in a world you don't generally have a place? 






You've shrived hard and long to fit in, to oblige the group by becoming of the universe of clock watchers, however by one means or another this life and the individuals in it appear to be only on the verge of excessively baa. You may have known this from an early age and considered yourself somewhat abnormal, a bit weird, and others may have shunned you for it. Nonetheless, in time, you figure out how to live with the clock watchers, whilst figuring out how to develop your awareness at an alternate rate from others. You feel that smidgen more profound about things, you are more instinctive, you appear to physically feel different people groups torment, you sense their feelings without them talking a word. You may be more in contact with your most profound sense of being than others and make inquiries that others don't appear to think about.

1.As long as I remember, I was different. It hurts to be rejected for who you are and it is also more hurtful as you do not know how to be another way. I was no chosen by any group at school. When we played games I was always last to be chosen as I was uncoordinated and could not remember which way to turn as I did not know my left from right. I had some learning disabilities and dyslexia so I could not spell because I heard everything funny.  I was different in these small ways they seem small now but when you are a kid and want so much to be liked then it is important. When I got to High School all of a sudden I was popular but I did not know .how to handle being liked any more than not being liked. So I rejected them before they could reject me. I acted like the boys were all my brothers and got my girl friends dates with them. What a Geek. I was so scared of people and being hurt that I did become a fringe dweller.  Eventually  I did not fit with the bad crowd they thought I was dumb and square. I did not drink, smoke or put out. Wow, what a bad girl I was. I sought out others who thought differently.
2.  You are emphatic way beyond what most people feel.  You feel others pain. You can't be around too many people to long as they drain you. You love being with people but since you feel all their emotions they also drain you. So you limit how much you can be around any one. 

3.  Fringe dwellers are often entrepreneurs, or people who go to different countries to offer their services to a charity to help others, they are not interested in climbing the corporate ladder. They love to go to school but are uncomfortable with graduations.  A normal job to you is like pulling your own teeth with a plier, it’s painful to even think about it.  You are here to change the world, and raise the consciousness of the world that little bit more, build your confidence, be who you are, Go for expressing your creativity, using your empathy, and crying for others some times. be grateful and let go, Becoming a fringe dweller comes from being hurt, Forgive, resolve the hurt, There is not enough of that in the world so  don’t be afraid of being a fringe dweller, embrace it and go change the world.
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