Accepting Who You Are Then Deciding You Are Alright The Way you Are.

'A Fringe Dweller is someone who lives life outside their head. Using their brain-pan merely as an observational device and not as a judgement unit.Doing so allows a Fringe Dweller to perceive life in many different ways... Making the emotions of "fear" much less intense and the emotions of "love" much more abundant.Often it is said that Fringe Dwellers are higher spirits waiting for humanity to grow with them into something bigger.'The followers of Jesus & Buddha refer to their leaders as Prophets.The critics of Jesus & Buddha may refer to them as Fringe Dwellers.

 Do you ever feel that you are stuck in a world you don't generally have a place? 

You've shrived hard and long to fit in, to oblige the group by becoming of the universe of clock watchers, however by one means or another this life and the individuals in it appear to be only on the verge of excessively baa. You may have known this from an early age and considered yourself somewhat abnormal, a bit weird, and others may have shunned you for it. Nonetheless, in time, you figure out how to live with the clock watchers, whilst figuring out how to develop your awareness at an alternate rate from others. You feel that smidgen more profound about things, you are more instinctive, you appear to physically feel different people groups torment, you sense their feelings without them talking a word. You may be more in contact with your most profound sense of being than others and make inquiries that others don't appear to think about.

1.As long as I remember, I was different. It hurts to be rejected for who you are and it is also more hurtful as you do not know how to be another way. I was no chosen by any group at school. When we played games I was always last to be chosen as I was uncoordinated and could not remember which way to turn as I did not know my left from right. I had some learning disabilities and dyslexia so I could not spell because I heard everything funny.  I was different in these small ways they seem small now but when you are a kid and want so much to be liked then it is important. When I got to High School all of a sudden I was popular but I did not know .how to handle being liked any more than not being liked. So I rejected them before they could reject me. I acted like the boys were all my brothers and got my girl friends dates with them. What a Geek. I was so scared of people and being hurt that I did become a fringe dweller.  Eventually  I did not fit with the bad crowd they thought I was dumb and square. I did not drink, smoke or put out. Wow, what a bad girl I was. I sought out others who thought differently.
2.  You are emphatic way beyond what most people feel.  You feel others pain. You can't be around too many people to long as they drain you. You love being with people but since you feel all their emotions they also drain you. So you limit how much you can be around any one. 

3.  Fringe dwellers are often entrepreneurs, or people who go to different countries to offer their services to a charity to help others, they are not interested in climbing the corporate ladder. They love to go to school but are uncomfortable with graduations.  A normal job to you is like pulling your own teeth with a plier, it’s painful to even think about it.  You are here to change the world, and raise the consciousness of the world that little bit more, build your confidence, be who you are, Go for expressing your creativity, using your empathy, and crying for others some times. be grateful and let go, Becoming a fringe dweller comes from being hurt, Forgive, resolve the hurt, There is not enough of that in the world so  don’t be afraid of being a fringe dweller, embrace it and go change the world.
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Forgive and The Pain Will Go Away

“We are travelers on a cosmic journey,stardust,swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share.This is a precious moment. It is a little parenthesis in eternity.”  ― Deepak Chopra, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success: A Practical Guide to the Fulfillment of Your Dreams Forgiveness is something you do for you. You have no control over anyone else so cannot do anything to make them forgive you. However, you can release yourself from the past, live in the now and release the pain that not forgiving causes. The past is gone and cannot be changed well that is the subject of another article. It does not behoove us to live in the past or the future. We only have any control over living in the present. We cannot claim the present if we are still in the past. Two thoughts cannot occupy the same space at the same time. Unforgiveness is resistence to being in the present. It is the need for revenge or to hurt someone else like they hurt us. To forgive is to release all that anger and resistence. These emotions are blocks to us moving on. It does not effect the other person one way or another. Just because we forgive someone we still have the choice of whether to have them in or lives or no. Unforgiveness, anger, holds us to this other person as tightly as if we loved them. Perhaps we do love them and only are hurt at their actions. We still do not want to hold them to us. We wish to release ourselves give ourselves true freedom to move on. I truly believe that many of our ailments with our bodies are caused by unresolved situations or emotion. Resentment causes arthritis, stiffness in the joints us to be unflexible. So if you are trying to grow spiritually, enjoy your time here by being really healthy work on forgiveness. Whatever thoughts we are holding onto tightly become our future so when we do not forgive then we are creating our past into our future. How can we expect new results from old action. Forgiveness affirmations are just one of the many tools we all have at our disposal to heal ourselves and heal all things that no longer serve us. They may have served us at one time but certainly these negative emotions and feelings do not serve the spiritual person you are developing in the here iand now. The important thing to remember is that we are responibile for what happens in our lives. We have been given the power of freedom by taking this responsibility. So when you use tools like prayer and affirmations to change how you feel you are taking responsibility for your life. When you react it is you that is making that choice too. We cannot feel the good stuff when we are cut off from our emotion. It may stop the pain but it stops all emotion. Emotion is the motion of life. So without feeling we do not move we are stuck. Forgiving and accepting are not the same things. The act of forgiveness takes place in our minds eye and heart. It nothing to do with the other person. It is a self-lioving act that stops the pain. Forgiving does not mean accepting. The act of forgiveness takes place in our mind. It has nothing to do with “them”. We are no longer stuck in the past when we forgive. These affirmations can help you to forgive so move on into a more positive place in life. Forgiveness Affirmations The past is gone. I live only in the present. I release the past and set it free. I design my future in the now. I have no responibility for anyone but me I change me by changing my thoughts. II realize that my parents gave me all the love that they knew how to give. I forgive them for passing on any negative thinking. I forgive myself for judging their behavior. I forgive myself for not being all I want to be now. I will be all those things that I yearn for in time. As I truly forgive myself I find I am less apt to judge others. As I learn how to forgive life becomes so much easier. Each day is filled with opportunities for me to grow spiritually. I let go of everyone in the past, I say, I love you, I forgive you, I release you. As I see myself as a human being doing the best I can, I see others in that way and have understanding and compassion. I am able to forgive, let go and let God. Judi Singleton owns and operaties BeJewelu.com where you can dress the whole family for less.