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When one works on their inner most beliefs then you can change the way you think about things your actions in the outer world also change with the thoughts. These changes will be reflected in your outer world. Where the thought flows is where the action goes, so to speak. If one can tell oneself a new story about how they think and feel about things your life can really begin to change.
It all starts with visualizing your life in a different way. The imagination does not know that the thoughts are not real. So it begins to act on these thoughts just like they were a really happening in the real world. We get what we think both negative and positive. If you are a worrier and are afraid to take risks you tend not to want to change things. You want routine it implies that you can control your world; which is a fallacy as the only thing that is for sure in life, is change.
Thinking you can control the world is something that just is not true, so the first thing you have to accept is that you do not have control over anything except your personal world. Then you only have control of how you think. Thinking is what creates the negative and positive things that happen in your world. People want to change their world but they do not want to take the risks that it takes to change, so they stay stuck.
When you cannot imagine a whole new world for yourself you just keep repeating the same visualizations, of your world as you know it. So things stay the same. Interestingly enough people except a different outcome from repeating the same behavior. If you really realized how much your inner thinking creates your outside world would you start to change your thinking to create the kind of the world that you really want?
If you began to change your thinking just a little bit each day and began to see the results in your outer world if you supported the new way of thinking it would sink into your subconscious mind and change your outer world. The new way of thinking brings on new hopes and dreams, which then bring on new goals. Your perspective of the world begins to change. The inner thinking would begin to seep through to the outer world. As your thinking changes your behavior and feeling change. The way you act toward others change, the decisions you make begin to change. You suddenly have more energy and ambition to meet your new goals. You suddenly see life filled with possibilities instead of fearing change.
Be a people watcher.
Whenever we find a trait or behavior we do not like we need to look at ourselves to see it we behave in this way. Usaually you will find that a behavior that really bugs us is one that we demonstrate on a regular basis. What is the old saying about pointing one finger at someone else and we have two finges pointing back at ourselves. So what do we do if we find objectable behavior in ourself? A couple things that you can do. You can visualize yourself behaving in a different way. You can use affirmations to support the change. You can practice in your mind behaving in a different way, more pleasing to your self esteem.
Think how you will feel when you have conquered this behavior that no longer serves you. Think often that you can change this behavror. Post affirmations where you will see them often on the change you want to make. Put them places like I have a bulletin board next to my bed so it is the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning. On the bathroom mirror, is another good place or the dash of your car. See yourself using your will power and self discipline. Practice in low level risk situations with people that are not too important to you behaving in a new way. For example when I was trying to learn to be assertive, I practiced with store clerks. They were less risk than my family members. Every time you have even a small victory reward yourself. If you do not do too well at first cut yourself some slack. You will get better with practice. Remember it all happens from the inside out.
Change the way you think and change your world.
Judi Singleton owns and operates Be Jewel U Jewelry and Clothing Company Visit and outfit the whole family for less
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When one works on their inner most beliefs then you can change the way you think about things your actions in the outer world also change with the thoughts. These changes will be reflected in your outer world. Where the thought flows is where the action goes, so to speak. If one can tell oneself a new story about how they think and feel about things your life can really begin to change.
It all starts with visualizing your life in a different way. The imagination does not know that the thoughts are not real. So it begins to act on these thoughts just like they were a really happening in the real world. We get what we think both negative and positive. If you are a worrier and are afraid to take risks you tend not to want to change things. You want routine it implies that you can control your world; which is a fallacy as the only thing that is for sure in life, is change.
Thinking you can control the world is something that just is not true, so the first thing you have to accept is that you do not have control over anything except your personal world. Then you only have control of how you think. Thinking is what creates the negative and positive things that happen in your world. People want to change their world but they do not want to take the risks that it takes to change, so they stay stuck.
When you cannot imagine a whole new world for yourself you just keep repeating the same visualizations, of your world as you know it. So things stay the same. Interestingly enough people except a different outcome from repeating the same behavior. If you really realized how much your inner thinking creates your outside world would you start to change your thinking to create the kind of the world that you really want?
If you began to change your thinking just a little bit each day and began to see the results in your outer world if you supported the new way of thinking it would sink into your subconscious mind and change your outer world. The new way of thinking brings on new hopes and dreams, which then bring on new goals. Your perspective of the world begins to change. The inner thinking would begin to seep through to the outer world. As your thinking changes your behavior and feeling change. The way you act toward others change, the decisions you make begin to change. You suddenly have more energy and ambition to meet your new goals. You suddenly see life filled with possibilities instead of fearing change.
Be a people watcher.
Whenever we find a trait or behavior we do not like we need to look at ourselves to see it we behave in this way. Usaually you will find that a behavior that really bugs us is one that we demonstrate on a regular basis. What is the old saying about pointing one finger at someone else and we have two finges pointing back at ourselves. So what do we do if we find objectable behavior in ourself? A couple things that you can do. You can visualize yourself behaving in a different way. You can use affirmations to support the change. You can practice in your mind behaving in a different way, more pleasing to your self esteem.
Think how you will feel when you have conquered this behavior that no longer serves you. Think often that you can change this behavror. Post affirmations where you will see them often on the change you want to make. Put them places like I have a bulletin board next to my bed so it is the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning. On the bathroom mirror, is another good place or the dash of your car. See yourself using your will power and self discipline. Practice in low level risk situations with people that are not too important to you behaving in a new way. For example when I was trying to learn to be assertive, I practiced with store clerks. They were less risk than my family members. Every time you have even a small victory reward yourself. If you do not do too well at first cut yourself some slack. You will get better with practice. Remember it all happens from the inside out.
Change the way you think and change your world.
Judi Singleton owns and operates Be Jewel U Jewelry and Clothing Company Visit and outfit the whole family for less
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